How do you arrange your
day? Do you have a routine? Do you have an "early morning" mood? An
Italian expression talks about "getting out of bed with the left foot",
meaning in a bad mood. Ask
yourself if the mood you get up in might define what kind of a day you will
have. Can a routine help? Following a regular procedure every morning (and
possibly throughout the whole day) might seem boring and repetitive to some,
but for you it is utterly positive. It gives you a sense of security, you feel
you are doing what you are supposed to do. You "know" what you are
doing, because you never embark in new, unpredictable behaviors. You like to go
to work always following the usual route, you have a favorite restaurant, type
of entertainment, same old friends etc. On the other hand, there are others who
don’t like to be methodical at all, who don't appreciate a routinely unfolded
life. They prefer to change their ways, decide something on a whim, don't like
to plan. They believe that this kind of life is more exciting, always new and
unpredictable. What could be the deep beliefs that create such different
personalities? I think that the first type needs routine and repetition because
they feel that only these can provide them with stability. Knowing what is coming and how
they will proceed during the day gives them a sense of consistency, of
security.The adventurous types, instead, prefer the unknown, they believe they
are able to face any uncertainty, they like to be surprised and challenged.
Which is the best? Neither and both. The Latins used to say "In medio stat virtus" (the virtue,
the good thing lies in the middle). Meaning? Be cautious but, every now and
then, dare to try something new. Enjoy your adventures, but don't be careless or... reckless.
Simple common sense, do you agree? A little spice in your life is good, but not too
much. (Too much might make you feel uncomfortable, even sick!!)
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