An Italian proverb says, "If you leave the old road
for a new one, you know what you are leaving behind but not what you will
find." This seems to advise you to stay put, because the unknown could be
scary or deceitful. On the other hand, Positive Thinking encourages you to
abandon old stuff (ideas, habits, maybe even your environment, if you feel the
need for a change). Are these two concepts in contrast? I don't believe they
are. My opinion is that, at important crossroads in your life, you should
follow your intuition and dare to step out of your old ways. If
this possibility entered your mind, it means that there is something to it. It
means that you have to take it into consideration, because it could mark a
positive shift in your well-arranged existence. But, be careful. Making a
choice does not mean that you are going to be chained to it forever, as many
seem to think. You step onto the new path and do your best to make it work. But
if, at a certain point, you realize that it was not the optimal decision, that
it did not yield the result you had hoped for, you can still go back to the old
road and... try to make it work better. Let's never forget that we are free to
decide what we want to do with our lives. But wisdom must be our guide. We are
no children who are allowed to change their minds at a whim. We are (hopefully)
reasoning adults who, by now, should be able to discriminate between what is
positive and what is not.
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