If you stay alert, you
can learn so much about people's behavior, even in rather common occurrences.
And, if you are willing to, you
can learn a lot from every
single one. Here is an example.
Picture this scene: a long line of cars stationary at a red
traffic light. The light becomes green, the cars start to move, then the first
two suddenly stop again. The third one is not quick enough in hitting the
brakes and slightly bumps into the car in front. Not more than a scratch. While
the "hitter" gets out of the car in order to apologize and exchange
insurance phone numbers, the individual who was "struck" stays locked inside
and calls 911, claiming that an injury
accident has taken place.
Within a couple of minutes three police cars, a fire engine and an ambulance
converge on the site of the "accident". A big fuss, while the victim also starts mentioning some pain,
allegedly caused by the "accident". The whole thing is just a waste
of time and resources for all those involved. Why? Because one individual
wanted to create a case and see if a financial benefit could be obtained from
the circumstance. Any conversation was refused, no communication was accepted
or established with the other party. This situation recently happened to a
friend, but I believe it's a rather common case, that can of course take place
in many different way, situations and circumstances. The sad reflection is that there are many people who do not trust
others, who believe everybody else is dangerous, who are afraid of being taken
advantage of (so they try to do it first), who prefer to fight (maybe even go
to court) rather than find an agreement or a compromise, who would never give
others the benefit of the doubt. What
a depressing world these people are living in!
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