Some people have the tendency to remember the past with regret. They think of the "happy times" long gone and feel sad because they are over and cannot be re-lived once again. I find this attitude totally wrong for two reasons. First, those happy times can be re-lived in your memory. When you carefully "think" about anything, you can imagine, visualize, actually see and feel with the eyes of your mind, so - in a way - you are able to re-create and re-experience that situation. Second, instead of evoking memories with a sense of sadness because they are gone, try to feel happy because they happened. After all, memories are the part of your life that make up your personal experience. In a way, they make up who "you" are.
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