Sometimes you are unhappy not because things in your life don't go well but because you nurse some "needs" that you wrongly perceive as such, while they are not. An example? The need to always be right. (Don't deny it because almost everybody feels the same.) Another one? The need to control. An additional one? The need to blame others/situations for your failures. If you wish to improve the way you usually "feel", you must examine yourself, find out what's going on, acknowledge it and finally get rid of it. How? By simply realizing that you don't "need" any of those negative traits. You can be much happier without always being right, without controlling, without blaming. On the contrary, what you really need are tolerance, acceptance, responsibility.
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