Changing jobs, neighborhoods, cities, even countries or partners can't change what you are: if you want something different in your life, you must decide to change something inside yourself first. A well-known tale speaks of two travelers who decided to move to the same city. The one with a positive attitude found a friendly environment, while the one with a negative personality met with unpleasant people and circumstances. The same city with the same inhabitants, but two different approaches to the new life. Have you tried to avoid, ignore, deny, run away from something that you did not want in your own life? Did you succeed? Were you able to improve your circumstances and your psychological state simply by changing environment? You might have, but usually it's not that easy. The first change must happen "inside" before being mirrored, reflected "outside".
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