Do you believe that you are always aware of what you are doing and saying? Are you sure that your voice, your eyes, your facial expressions and body language express your true feelings? Finally, is it important to answer these questions? Yes, it is! It is important because you often behave in a way that does not reflect what you really want to project into the world. You tell your opinion and others react in a defensive or aggressive way. So, you complain and feel unfairly treated. But... have you examined "the way" you uttered such opinion? Although you may be sure that you were just sharing your thought, the way it was delivered may have been interpreted otherwise. What was the timbre of your voice like? And the expression of your eyes? Were you frowning? So many little details that you may perceive as of no importance, can determine the reception (acceptance or rejection) that your speech or action receive and possible consequent reactions. Therefore... Beware!
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