Almost every human being wishes for the ability to change another human being. Wishing is ok because it costs nothing. Trying to actually do it, though, can entail some serious consequences. If you endeavor to change “someone” who you believe should be different, you will almost certainly be faced by disappointment. Why? Because he or she are they way they are and, unless “they” themselves decide to make some changes, the only result of your attempt will be additional contrast and unhappiness. What to do? The only possible thing. If you love them, accept them as they are. Otherwise… let them go.
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