A wise person is able to face unpleasant outcomes willingly - sometimes even with a smile. It’s not easy but it can be done. How? By convincing yourself that it is better to accept than to fight. Why? Because there are certain ‘battles’ in life that you simple cannot win. In spite of your efforts and determination, not always are you in control of the situation, especially when other people or outside conditions are involved. In such case, you may have the tendency to blame others or your bad luck for what is happening. When you do that, you make things even worse because you build up more negativity inside yourself. On the other hand, once you succeed in accepting unpleasant happenings as an undeniable and often unavoidable reality, you are also able to shape a more serene way of carrying out your daily existence.
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