A proverb says, “The one who searches, will find” and it is true if you refer it to something you have “lost”. It’s not true when you apply it to something that you “believe” you don’t have simply because you are unaware. Looking for approval in order to feel gratified means that you feel you don’t have great value unless someone else says you do. If the one you love doesn’t love you back, you believe that you are unworthy of being loved. But if you persist in such conviction, you are programming your mental computer negatively, and you will consequently continue having the same disappointing experiences. Start by nursing your self-esteem and convince yourself that your judgement about yourself is the only one that counts because it is the only one that can make you able to express yourself in the best possible way.
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