Being "Humane"

Are you aware of the importance of words? Do you know that what you say can either make a person happy or unhappy? Sure you know. Everybody knows. But... do you care to remember it when you actually speak to someone (and even to yourself)? Do you realize the impact of negative expressions upon the spirit of another individual? Using harsh words is like rubbing a wound with salt. You can still convey a message in a gentler manner. Instead of rudely saying "You are a loser", you can say instead, "Next time you can do better". You are still conveying the idea that "this" time the other failed while showing trust in their capability of improving. This is what "being humane" should mean.