In order to understand, decide, choose, you have two possibilities: either to think by yourself or you let someone else tell you (or at least "advise" you about) what to do. The problem is that, if you prefer (or "allow") another person to give you an explanation or make a decision on your behalf, the explanation and the decision will be according to his or her own point of view, which may not necessarily be the one that suits you best. No-one can find your "meaning" for you. No-one knows who you really are and your true needs. You may prefer the second solution because you don't want to make the effort. But the first one is much more fulfilling.
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