“By the way, what is happiness?”, asks
Charlie Brown, the funny, yet philosophical cartoon character. Yes, indeed.
What is it? Have you ever wondered and tried to find a suitable answer? You
might have come up with a definition of “pleasure”, of “satisfaction”, but
these are only temporary feelings. “Happiness” is something else, if it really
exists. We wont’ try to define it here, either. But we can start by examining
one feeling that certainly deprives human beings of the serenity they need to
move towards happiness. Such feeling is called “the need to judge”. Have you
ever endeavored to look at reality with “neutral eyes”, i.e. without judging anybody and anything, accepting what you
see, what is happening, the way people are – without
wishing to change them? If you try and shake all judgment off, you will feel
lighter, as if a heavy burden has fallen off your shoulders. You will
experience PEACE. Judging (and often “condemning”) is an awfully hard job to do. You seem to believe that it’s the only way to live your life but, in
so doing, you miss seeing one of the paths that can lead you towards the main
street called “Happiness”.
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