In a book I recently read, something the author had written struck me. Quote: Getting into marriage or a relationship, there are two basic dynamic attitudes, "I am going to get something out of this person" or "I am going to share with this person". While believing this observation to be true, I can't help thinking that it might not be true for ALL cases. You might "know" that you have to be with that person for no specific, "personal" reasons. The relationship may dissolve into nothing, but the situation it brought you into is what really counts. Such situation may include a place, a job, children, friends etc...Things and/or people that HAD TO become part of your life. Getting into that marriage or that relationship was simply the cathalist for the unfolding of the "web" of your life.
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