You may have wondered about the effectiveness of your way of communicating with others. You may have experienced the unpleasant feeling of not being able to make your interlocutor really get what you are saying. For example, you are sure you expressed your preference on something very clearly, yet such preference is ignored. Why? There can be several explanations. Your interlocutor 1.doesn't pay attention to what you say; 2.they don't give importance to what you say; 3.they don't care about what you say; 4.they forget what you say; 5.they choose to do what they like regardless of what you say. It's quite a list! What conclusion can you reach? If you are not particularly connected to such careless person, you can avoid communicating with them as much as possible. If you care or if you must keep in touch, be patient and bravely accept... There is no other way. They won't change!
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