It is commonplace to say that you should not expect anything from others, that disappointment is caused by expectations, that you should do things without wondering about the results. It is a good principle, but it cannot be accepted unconditionally If you give your friend a gift just to make them happy, it's wise not to expect for it to be necessarily reciprocated, as your friend may have other ways to show their affection towards you. The main point is this: you might not expect tangible proofs of their love, but the feeling that such love really exists is indispensable. Otherwise it would be like throwing flowers in the wind: they would be carried away without leaving a trace, without giving anybody pleasure. And if you have a talent (baking, singing, writing, acting etc.) and you share it with others, it's fair for you to expect at least some attention. Otherwise... what's the use of sharing?
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