When you love someone, you want to see them happy. But, in order to contribute to their happiness, you will be asked to do or not do certain things such as being available and supportive, refraining from being controlling or abusive etc. If you say you love another, yet you do nothing to prove it with your actions (i.e. you are unavailable or unsupportive, you are controlling or abusive etc.), your so-called love is like a plastic flower that seems to be the real thing while it is not. It "only" looks like a flower but it has none of the attributes it should have. Its petals are not soft and velvety, it has no fragrance, its beauty is fake. If you look closely, you will realize it. Therefore...check out how you love your beloved, but check also how your beloved loves you. It goes both ways!
P.S. This can apply to any kind of close relationships.
P.S. This can apply to any kind of close relationships.
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