When you want something badly and you don't get it, you feel sorry, you get upset. But here is a thought that might console you: If you didn't get it, it "may" mean that it was not right for you. Check it out: think of your past and bring back to your memory an episode where there was a certain person, situation, thing that you really wanted and... got it. But also remember how, after the first exhilaration, it turned out as - if not the worst - at least not the best of your life's occurrences. Be a bit of a philosopher and take life as it comes... If you can't help analyzing things, go ahead and do it. But then, when you finally realize that there is really nothing to understand - because stuff happens as it is supposed to, and you have no power over it - just "allow" and accept it, possibly with a smile.
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