Do you sometimes try to direct and manage the lives of others? Especially of those who are near you, you live with you? Please, don't. Don't take advantage of your position to impose your opinions, your ideas, your will. Each human being has the right to their own choices, even if they are in contrast with yours. Don't forget that it is "their" life that is involved. Will they make a mistake? It is possible. But it will be a mistake caused by their choice, not by your imposition. I know, it is not easy to keep quiet when you see a dear one heading for trouble, making a decision that is clearly doomed. You can see it and they cannot. Yet, it is not up to you do "decide" on their behalf (unless they ask for your advice. But they usually don't, do they?)
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