6. Ask yourself:

Do I feel I need to please others in order to be liked or appreciated?

Who? In what way?

Answer sincerely

 5. Ask yourself:

Do I ever wonder whether I have real chances of doing something new, different? 

No? Why?    Yes? What?

Answer sincerely

4. Ask yourself:

Am I interested in new possibilities, in different ways? Why?

Why precisely those?

Answer sincerely

3. Ask yourself:

When I conform to the way society suggests, do I feel fulfilled? More appreciated? Safer?

Yes? No?

Why?

Answer sincerely:

2. Ask yourself:

Do I believe I need to conform myself to the general opinion?

To what extent do I usually do it?

Do I tend to follow what the media say it’s fashionable?

Yes? No?

Why?

Answer sincerely:

                               30  QUESTIONS FOR YOU

1. Ask yourself:

How do I think others perceive me?

Do I think I actually am the way they see me?

Yes? No?

Why?

Answer sincerely:

To sum it up, try this.

Reassess your life, NOW. Rate each item from 0-10 points.

1.   Health       /

2.   Love       /

3.   Finances       /

4.   Family relationships       /

5.   Friends      /

6.   Environment (social/work)       /

7.   Physical/material fulfillment       /

8.   Emotional fulfillment      /

9.   Spiritual fulfillment       /

10. General lifestyle       /

TOTAL                                                    /100

How does it feel?