22. Ask yourself:

Do I think I deserve a better situation? (work, family, social...)

What in particular?

How could I get it?

Answer sincerely

 21. Ask yourself:

Do I believe that only some people are "lucky"?

(If "yes", give some examples)

Answer sincerely

 20. Ask yourself

Do I believe it worth trying or am I sure it would be impossible?

Why?

Am I conditioned from past experiences?

Answer sincerely

19. Ask yourself

Would I really be able to be successful?

Or do I believe it's impossible? 

Am I conditioned from the past?

Answer sincerely

 18. Ask yourself

Do I feel I could make an attempt?

How far could I go?

Answer sincerely

 17. Ask yourself

If I succeeded to... (specify your 'dream') would I feel more fulfilled?

To what extent? 

What would change in myself?

Answer sincerely

 16. Ask yourself

Do I believe I could have more from life?

What would that be?

How could I get it?

Answer sincerely

 15. Ask yourself:

Could I ever be able to....?   

(Describe your 'dream' in detail)

Yes? No? Why?

Answer sincerely

 14. Ask yourself:

What changes could I make, if I believed in myself?

How could I do it?

Answer sincerely

 13. Ask yourself:

Am I interested in making changes in myself and in my life?

Yes? No? Why?

Answer sincerely

 12. Ask yourself:

Am I aware of may capabilities? Yes?

What are they? 

How could I benefit from them?

Answer sincerely

 

11. Ask yourself:

If I think about my "ideal", could I do something to resemble it?

What? In what way?

Answer sincerely

 10. Ask yourself:

How do I judge/see myself?  

How would I "grade" myself as a human being? 

Based on which criteria?

Answer sincerely

 9. Ask yourself:

If I could choose, "what" would I like to be or to have?

(profession/job, talent, spirituality, money...) 

Why "that"?

Answer sincerely

 8. Ask yourself:

If I could resemble someone, "who" would I pick?

(Give a practical example) Why?

Answer sincerely

 7. Ask yourself:

How often do I feel dissatisfied? 

About what? Why?

Answer sincerely

 6. Ask yourself:

Do I feel I need to please others in order to be liked or appreciated?

Who? In what way?

Answer sincerely

 5. Ask yourself:

Do I ever wonder whether I have real chances of doing something new, different? 

No? Why?    Yes? What?

Answer sincerely

4. Ask yourself:

Am I interested in new possibilities, in different ways? Why?

Why precisely those?

Answer sincerely

3. Ask yourself:

When I conform to the way society suggests, do I feel fulfilled? More appreciated? Safer?

Yes? No?

Why?

Answer sincerely:

2. Ask yourself:

Do I believe I need to conform myself to the general opinion?

To what extent do I usually do it?

Do I tend to follow what the media say it’s fashionable?

Yes? No?

Why?

Answer sincerely:

                               30  QUESTIONS FOR YOU

1. Ask yourself:

How do I think others perceive me?

Do I think I actually am the way they see me?

Yes? No?

Why?

Answer sincerely:

To sum it up, try this.

Reassess your life, NOW. Rate each item from 0-10 points.

1.   Health       /

2.   Love       /

3.   Finances       /

4.   Family relationships       /

5.   Friends      /

6.   Environment (social/work)       /

7.   Physical/material fulfillment       /

8.   Emotional fulfillment      /

9.   Spiritual fulfillment       /

10. General lifestyle       /

TOTAL                                                    /100

How does it feel?

If you are still not too sure 

whether you really need to know yourself more 

in order to make your life ‘better’ - ask, 

‘If I met myself, would I like myself?’  

Don’t just talk, experience! 

                Only then will you know 

                                       the meaning of living. 

To overcome regrets, 

remember the small victories 

beside the disappointments, 

the little joys beside the sorrow.  

You are the result of your choices. 

If you feel that some new adjustments 

might still be useful, go ahead. 

You can always choose what you 

want to become, all over again! 

Intelligence is the capability 

to face life's challenges. 

Character is the way you 

choose to face such challenges.