When you complain that you can't achieve your goal - and try to find who or what is responsible for your failure - ask yourself this question, "What do I actually want?". It is not an idle question. The fact is that quite often people don't have clarity of purpose. They say they want something but their desire is rather blurry. If you don't know "exactly" what your aim is, it is difficult to obtain a satisfactory outcome. When you say you want a better-paid job, for example, you must first decide "what" kind of job it is. Accordingly, you can make a specific plan to get it because it soon becomes clear what path to follow (like going back to school, moving somewhere else, attending a specialized course etc.). You must know the destination you want to reach in order to get there successfully.
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