Ask yourself how you could get what you want that you believe you are lacking. Many a times you consider something to be impossible to obtain because you don’t make the effort to analyze the situation in detail and try to gain awareness of your actual capabilities to reach your goal. When you have been led to believe that you have no real choice beside the one that is the most apparently acceptable and the result greatly differs from the one you had hoped for, what is your assessment? Do you tend to feel a victim of the circumstances? You may think: "It was not my fault / I couldn’t do it differently / There was nothing else I could do / They made me do it." Does any of these statements ring a bell? If it does, please re-think!
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