A well-known saying advises that, when you are in Rome, you should do as the Romans do. Beside the superficial meaning, i.e. while visiting a foreign land, you should respect its customs and adapt to them as long as you stay there, such a phrase has a deeper meaning. Human beings in general tend to be a little self-righteous, they can't help believing that their way is the best, if not the only, way. It is not so. Everybody's "way" is the best...for them. It's neither right not wise to judge others because they think, act and behave differently from you. Therefore, when you have to deal with "Romans", try to understand them and endeavor to accomodate your behavior accordingly. Does this mean that, in doing so, you give up who you are? Absolutely not. You remain who you are, while showing flexibility of mind as well as appreciation for another's beliefs and habits. Is this just kindness? You can say so.
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